What is prayer all about? Until a few weeks ago I think I would have said “talking to God”, because that is what I had always done during my prayer time…. jabber, jabber, jabber. So much talking that God could not get a word in edgeways. I was a bit like the bumble bee, buzzing here and there and never giving God any peace.
Do you pray like a buzzing bee, noisily trying to annoy God into action to address your desires?
I would reel off my shopping list of things that I wanted God’s help with, thank Him for a few things (if I remembered) and then mentally tick off that I had had my prayer time. Then it was time to flutter onto the next thing in my busy schedule.
Are you like a butterfly, unable to keep still long enough to focus on God?
Over the last few weeks I’ve come to realise that my prayer life has been more about ME than about God. I have been so busy talking I’ve never given time for God to speak. How can I expect God to guide my life if I am not taking time to listen to what he says? You can’t have much of a relationship if one person never listens to the other.
But the light has now dawned….
,,,,and I have come to realise the importance of being still and listening.
Now my prayer time is not so much God’s todo list, rather its asking Him to reveal his message to me through the scriptures. I ask God to speak to me and as I open the Bible He takes me to a passage and I reflect on it. It’s an exciting spiritual journey that I am just at the start of and amazing things are happening which I am entering in a journal. For example, many of the passages I read last week were the focus of the sermon on Sunday – God-incidence!!!
However, I find being still at home difficult, there are too many distractions, my mind often wanders. Yet spending time outside, looking and listening to the beauty of God’s creation is just what I need to still my mind and focus on the Almighty.
Staring at the grace and beauty of a butterfly……
,,,,,,or appreciating the colours, agility and song of a bird….
Looking up at the cloud formations in the heavens….
…. or listening to the wind blowing through the fields….
…..the lapping of the water as the moorhen swims through the reeds….
…..feeling the dew on my feet and the warmth of the morning sun on my skin….
These things enable me to be still and rest in God; and oh what peace it brings!
Oswald Chamber states that “the point of prayer is not to get answers from God but to have oneness with Him”.
So if you feel distanced from God, ask yourself whether it is because you are not giving Him space to come into your life. Prayer is about a relationship with God, a special time of coming together. It does not have to be full of talk and noise, it can just be resting in each others company and listening to what He has to say.
Even Jesus took time out to go to a quiet place to be with God and to listen to him (Luke 4:42). So if it is good for Jesus then it must surely be good for us.
Find a peaceful place, be still and take time to listen, so he can refill you with His strength and reveal his plans for you.
“Be still, and know that I am God” Psalm 46:10
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11
“Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered the heart of man, the things that God has prepared for those who love him.” 1 Corinthians 2:9
Great promises, so be still, listen and give God the time to share them with you….